OK, it's a word that just pronounce it hurts, at least for me ... and I'm sure I'm not alone.
Throughout our lives, we encounter certain obstacles that make it difficult to carry out our plans and expectations. Sometimes these obstacles are saved and can afford to continue our course as we had planned. This makes us feel good about themselves and in a way, rewarded our efforts to find happiness (if only in every aspect of our lives).
Unfortunately, not always those obstacles can be saved with the same success. Not always our plans go as we want, whether in the field of health, academic, emotional, professional, etc, etc. Well, there is a real source of pain. Not seeing how things go as we want and that all we can do is accept them, despite the anger and helplessness that occurs. Many times, we never do, and we rebel against life somehow. And it is so hard to accept ...
few years ago, my sister told me "Maturing is not to celebrate a success but to learn to cope with failure." And he had good reason. Sometimes, we must be humble before to life and not be cowed or sink for not getting what you want (of course, cases of disease are the most difficult to accept). I come to say is that we have to play the cards that life has to offer, and maximized. We have to enjoy our successes (and everyone deserves them) and learn from these "obstacles" that we encounter along the way, sometimes, theirs is the more you learn. Only then can we be stronger to move forward, and Advanced. And, there are few successes have not gone through "failures" before.
Throughout our lives, we encounter certain obstacles that make it difficult to carry out our plans and expectations. Sometimes these obstacles are saved and can afford to continue our course as we had planned. This makes us feel good about themselves and in a way, rewarded our efforts to find happiness (if only in every aspect of our lives).
Unfortunately, not always those obstacles can be saved with the same success. Not always our plans go as we want, whether in the field of health, academic, emotional, professional, etc, etc. Well, there is a real source of pain. Not seeing how things go as we want and that all we can do is accept them, despite the anger and helplessness that occurs. Many times, we never do, and we rebel against life somehow. And it is so hard to accept ...
few years ago, my sister told me "Maturing is not to celebrate a success but to learn to cope with failure." And he had good reason. Sometimes, we must be humble before to life and not be cowed or sink for not getting what you want (of course, cases of disease are the most difficult to accept). I come to say is that we have to play the cards that life has to offer, and maximized. We have to enjoy our successes (and everyone deserves them) and learn from these "obstacles" that we encounter along the way, sometimes, theirs is the more you learn. Only then can we be stronger to move forward, and Advanced. And, there are few successes have not gone through "failures" before.
NOTE: Searching the net, I found the website of a teacher and lecturer at the University of Education Enrique Guzmán y Valle (Peru): D. Nemesio Candioti. In it, the teacher speaks, among other things, on how success and failure come together. It is a very positive article I'd like you to read. I'm sure you'll like it.
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